I have vivid memories of the excitement I felt when my mom got out her holiday decorations. She had a box for nearly every holiday. I’d get home from school to see our entry turned into a Valentine vigil/St. Patty’s Day spectacular/Autumn array or cozy Christmas cavern. We had a lot of memories wrapped up in all of that ambiance.
And here I am. Mom to three. I am in control of crafting those memories. What memories do I want them to have?
Right now I am struggling to find my balance. I want to have a de-cluttered, organized home. Some days I want to take all of my holiday bins to the thrift store and be done with it! I can hardly handle the “stuff” that comes in daily from 1st grade, preschool, the vets, the post office etc. How am I supposed to manage all of that PLUS all of the holiday “extras.”
On the other hand, I’ve seen the bliss in my boys’ eyes when we turn the house into a spooky halloween haven. I love creating our own, little traditions with my wee ones. I loved our “spooky” tours last year around our decked out, little house. I love watching my boys investigating the pilgrims at Thanksgiving and asking questions about the Nativities at Christmas.
So today I’m getting out our decorations. Just because extreme minimalism works for one person or family that does not make it right for everyone. That does not mean it’s the right way for ME and MY FAMILY. In my balance I believe there is space for my memory laden holiday decorations and the joy they bring.